Monthly Archives: July 2014

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Here’s something I wrote when I was asked to speak alongside Sheila Jeffreys, who was speaking about her book “Gender Hurts”, about how transgenderism harms women. In the end, I didn’t say all this, but for those of you who are interested, here it is..


“For the longest of time I told no-one. It is only in the past few years that I have found the words to describe my experience. Thank you, Sheila Jeffreys, and the Radical Feminist community of bloggers for the gift of words.


I used to have an online friend (also a partner of a man who thought he was a woman) who likened the experience of being partnered to a transgender to the frog who is put into the pot of water and the heat gradually turned up till cooked – a deliberate programme of de-sensitisation as each limit is compromised or ignored, and…

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Bravo, boys


Breaking news: women are no longer allowed to disagree with men.


Oh, no. If we disagree, if we speak out, we’ll have our home addresses published. We’ll have our personal information hacked and put on Twitter so that violent males and their handmaidens may frighten, bully, and harass us (and our families).

If women speak up, they will be threatened into submission.

This is a time-honored male tactic: make women vulnerable, make them frightened of their vulnerability, and then make women submit – to male needs, male ideology, male ego.

This is NOT a woman’s approach to dissention. THIS is male aggression. THIS is an attempt, on behalf of a man, to open women up to threats and violence. Period.

Knowing – with our eyes, brain, and body – that a person is male is NOT an act of aggression. Knowing – based on public record – that a male…

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Tap your heels together three times And think to yourself, I Am a Woman.

Reading what Kylie Jack has posted on Facebook vs Twitter is absolutely fascinating.  On Facebook being a woman only takes the declaration of the magic words ” I am a woman” and that makes it so. On Facebook he passes better than those cissy’s who never had to fight to be a laydee.  He clearly conflates gender presentation, makeup, facial hair, layee cloths with what it means to actually be a woman. Interestingly enough on Twitter he frets over his appearance and how everyone who comes in contact with him knows he’s male, even calling himself male pronouns (the horror!) He admits he doesn’t pass, he isn’t a woman, yet still it’s LET ME INTO YOUR WOMAN’S ONLY SPACES I’M A LAYDEE CAUSE I SAY SO and people buy it.

What privilege it is to get offended somewhere cause someone saw you were an obvious dude, then have your “journalist” blogger friends write a smear piece to whip up a frenzy about a store they’ve never heard about in a second tier city. Then you get to act magnanimous while making demands even though you’ve done nothing to actually “transition”.  Just saying the magic words and clicking your heels together is enough!















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Don’t you DARE upset the man in the Bra shop!!!!!!

Gee, why would any woman have a problem with this *cough* lovely lady *cough* in their dressing room…


Much Sad, Very Cry

The internet is predictably loosing it’s shit over allegations that M2T Kylie Jack was denied his god given rights to enter women’s only space in a Texas lingerie store a few days ago.


The owner of Petticoat Fair took to facebook in order to apologize for any hurt feels (of course this wasn’t enough and created a shit storm of it’s own)





Oh wow, a nuanced response based in female reality from an owner on why they asked Kylie to step into another area to live out his girlhood fantasies.

The dressing room area is a particularly private and vulnerable place for many women and girls, so it’s a protected area. For that reason, we also have a completely separate dressing area for women who have undergone mastectomies and need post-surgical care. (Our fitter invited Kylie and companion into this part of our store so they could have this delicate conversation privately.) Just as a gym won’t allow men in a women’s dressing room (and vice versa) for the comfort and safety of its patrons, we don’t allow men or boys above a certain age in our dressing area. Despite our otherwise inclusive approach, those who might be or who outwardly appear to be men (regardless of how they are dressed) pose a delicate challenge, and in the case of imposters, can pose a safety risk to the Petticoat Fair staff.

If it’s unclear whether a customer is a man or a woman, we err on the side of caution as a protocol, but never on the side of discrimination or intolerance.


God, how dare the staff err on the side of caution when a mans feelings are at stake!!!! And ZOMG how dare you imply this isn’t a bootiful laaaydeee!


Predictably, trans staff writer over at Jizzabell picked up on the story and had this to say…

Oh. No. Dressing rooms are vulnerable places, sure. For women and girls, sure. Trans women and trans girls are, well, gee, women and girls. This is getting worse and not seeming very apology-like. The idea that men or boys above a certain age are not allowed into these dressing rooms is absolutely irrelevant. Kylie Jack and her girlfriend are both women. So the policy against men and boys shouldn’t need to be trotted out. Likewise, the fact that Andrews even felt the need to bring it up is implicitly suggesting that trans women aren’t women. This appears to be confirmed with the last sentence, where Andrews mentions that those who do not match up to whatever the staff’s idea of “woman” looks like is a “delicate situation” and could be an “imposter.” This is the same idea trotted out every time we try to discuss bathroom usage, and it’s false.

NO, it’s not FALSE. I’m so bloody sick of men saying that women’s concerns about their safety are false. Especially when women are attacked time and  time again. But let’s just ignore that. Male feelings are involved and that’s the most important thing!!!




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Here is Kylie’s response, which includes a list of demands, to Petticoat Fair…


How ominous he includes the Transgender Law Center thing at the end. No doubt this guy has been dying to sue someone. These guys feel so entitled and see it as an easy way to get money for plastic surgery.

Basically men should be allowed wherever they want, whenever they want regardless if the staff feels that they may be there under false pretenses, just, in the off chance, that they might hurt someone’s feelings. This is how fucking delusional the trans community it. They demand 100% capitulation or lawsuit!


I think this post from Kylie earlier in the month is very telling about his mentality…




Of course society is going to see you as anything BUT a woman…because you’re not a woman.



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